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My husband became involved with M and shortly after I became involved as well, we were a triad. M had kids and a primary Wanted a poly life as well. She lived in the same area less than ten minutes from our home. M had kids close in age to my oldest son. M and her kids would come over once a week, usually on Friday.
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If they had not been ok with it, we would have waited. My children have been raised with awareness of my poly life and within the polyamory community. Many of our close family friends are polyamorous families with kids.
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We continue to host a family camp out and an annual Thanksgiving potluck to bring together poly families with their children and build Wanted a poly life sense of plly. Our poly family and community most remind me of a church group my parents were a part of when I was growing up.
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For me it beats the hell out of the loneliness I felt the last years I spent at home with my mom, sister and step dad in our seemingly normal nuclear family. In the end for most poly people it is the love that binds us, not our address or even physical proximity to one Wanted a poly life. I wonder if the press will ever Wanted a poly life understand this? I am so glad that I read you article about what a ployamorous family with children looks like. It helps to know that people really do this.
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My children have NOT been raised this way and I am terrified to get this going… because of them. Do you think that you could help me?
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There are two schools of thought when it comes to emotions. But I believe that one is responsible for and loves ones children and family first and keeps those boundaries agreed on with spouse and partners or just spouse as the case may be.
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For some polyamorous relationships, sex may not even be in the equation. You relate to polyamorous partners in the same way as you relate to friends:.
If you're in a monogamous relationship, I'd hope your partner is also your friend. I see little reason to distinguish between friends and partners; the border is fluid.
This will require some explanation. Basically, I see monogamy as a subcategory of polyamory. This can be a problem Porn chat female two partners have a different understanding of the implicit rules of monogamy, for example if one of them thinks that being partners also means that you must not have any secrets at all from each other.
It can also be a problem because the move from being friends to being more leads to an expectation of eventually having sex with that person, moving in together, maybe having kids and so on. Polyamory means acknowledging that human relationships can be much more diverse and don't always fit the default pattern. For example, you may Wanted a poly life a friend that you'd like to cuddle but would not wish to have sex with, or a regular sexual partner that you'd never wish to move in with.
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Lovers may live together or not. Now a days we have a small network of lovers, whom we both cherish very much. It feels like a real blessing live be connected by love and sometimes sex with a number of wonderful people.
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And we accept how important others are to those we love. So over the years it has become easier. It feels good to be around people who are open in that way. Or we can be completely non-sexual friends. Likewise Wanred our emotional connections. Poly has provided a good number of growth opportunities over the decades, and has not always been so easy. But it has for me been very rewarding, and is now Lady wants nsa Poway very sweet way of living.
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But as polh is, the absolute best moment in our experiment with polyamory which lasted about a year was the moment my wife finally told me we could stop. I was taken aback when a friend of mine asked me if I would ever be in a polyamorous relationship.
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Having a group of trusted adults means more people to contribute resources and share risk, more people to assist with rearing children, more people to help out around the house. On a more personal level, having multiple partners means that you are not loading all of your hopes, desires, and expectations on to one person.
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I am not otherwise an alt-lifestyler and am in fact fairly conservative in some ways. The mundane content of our relationship was in most respects quite conventional. We went on dinner dates and out to the movies, took some vacations together, went grocery shopping, talked about work.
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Cuddling together with my Wantdd was blissful. We surrounded ourselves with love, and all felt safe and right with the world. A Wanted a poly life of people think that polyamory is a little weird at best, and actively immoral at worst. My parents were politely supportive of my relationship, but some members of my extended Wanted a poly life were quite vocal in their distaste.
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If you have some Wanted a poly life or issue with your relationship, many people will jump to the conclusion that being polyamorous is the root of the problem. I avoided discussing my relationship status with all but my closest coworkers, as I suspected that disclosing such a thing might constitute a distinctly career-limiting move.
Wanted a poly life was on the receiving end of a lot Wanted a poly life rudely prying questions about our sex life, and a lot of unsavory assumptions about poly relationships and about me as a woman in such an arrangement. That it is just about sex and getting to sleep around, that we must be hippies or religious nuts like the Mormon Fundamentalists that were in the news a lief a while back, that it is an excuse Wanteed men to exploit women, that I must be giving in just to please Wantdd male partner, or because I felt that I didn't deserve anything better, Issues of moral judgement aside, ours is a couple-oriented society and a family unit involving more than two adults does not fit in easily.
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I write this at w time when I am new to talking about our triad in the past tense. My relationship with one of my partners has degraded to the point that it cannot be repaired, and I am not sure what this means for our family. There is no template for me to go by here, nothing straightforward like a divorce. I am Wanted a poly life saddened by the decline of this partnership, and also by the knowledge that I am losing Wantec of the foundation of support that has been so important to me for the last decade.
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