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We also do not want to be too obedient so that none of our own needs and goals are met. The obedient woman is a complete idiot. No right thinking man wants a obedient dodo. Right thinking men love assertive women. Assertive women tell it like it is.
controllingg No BS and pussyfooting. I have been told that I lack tact-so what! I am happy and was successful. Obedient women are an endangered species and is going by way of the dinosaur.
Even though I was quiet, I had a very strong argumentative side.
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To get my way in an argument, I would wear opponents down until they acquiesce. As Seek Lansing assertive controlling woman child, I was told that I was stubborn and hardharded by my relatives. I was also told that I did not follow instructions well although I was an above average student all my life.
I do not play well with others-so what! Guess who was the most successful in my family-me! I believe in getting my way and to be successful. All the other obedient dolts in my family were failures in their jobs, never achieved much.
Women, be assertive and people will respect you more. I Adult Sex Dating & Swinger - nice man for a woman that different people have different temperaments, different priorities in life, and different measures of what they consider to be success. If everyone were assertive, then who would acquiesce. Everyone would be wearing each other down. What is important is to be self-aware, determine what is most important to us and live the way that makes us most happy.
But just because someone chooses a different path does not make Seek Lansing assertive controlling woman a dolt, and just because they do not have as much money or fame, does not make them inferior. People simply have different priorities. Guess I am much too strong-willed to be obedient to anyone.
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Not only really liked this hub but got me thinking of how much I have changed and why. Up until around 30, I was Seek Lansing assertive controlling woman aggressive, sometimes too much so. Clearly received very well and never steered me wrong. At around 30 I was so tired. Ultimately tired of a game I was the actor and mt role was to please both men and women.
So fact was, I had really never allowed anyone to have control and was clueless to what I desired, or felt.
I continue to enjoy being passive, controlled and led, for many reasons but thank you for saying. Hi Kimberly, Thanks for sharing your story with us. But when it comes to something that I feel strongly about then I am very assertive about getting it. I think what you controkling is exactly right — it will get tiring very quickly to always be fighting. In life, I have found Sexy lady Helsinki people who are more Zen and can Seek Lansing assertive controlling woman with the flow end up leading happier lives.
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I am struggling with the attempt to work both together. I am Omg black women only puuuullleeeeez, verging on aggressive.
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I beleive both roles should be developed and encouraged, in both men and women. Women need to be womzn in certain situations in order to protect themselves and become successful in their own life.
While being passive in your love relationship might be attractive on certain levels, most men want a woman who will work with him as a partner and that would compel the woman to be assertive at least in some areas of their relationship.
Finding the balance between the two is a beautiful thing. I think I read somewhere that in societies where women start to become more assertive, that signals the end in that particular civilization, as it usually goes hand in hand with the break up of the family unit. Also, obedient wives do tend to attract abusive husbands. And control freaks, who treat them like doormats rather than like equal partners, which they should be, Girls want cock Kealakekua Hawaii if they are more obedient.
That is indeed an interesting premise. If you remember the source, please send me a link. I imagine that one argument that can be made to support this premise is child care. If women want to be out there power levelling it up like Seek Lansing assertive controlling woman men, who is going to stay home and take care of the kids, or would such women even want to have kids. Another very interesting article topic. You are right Cindy. By stress free I was trying to say that obedient women are more conflict averse and as a result there are fewer conflicts and presumably less stress.
But you are definitely right that when paired with an extreme, self-interested, and assertive personality, that could lead into a very stressful situation where the obedient personality is always under attack, which could ultimately lead to abuse. A more assertive woman would have probably left or put her foot down sooner.
I am woamn to a strong woman. My first wife was very assertive and I cow-towed to her and served her faithfully for 16 of the 20 yrs. My current wife is strong as well but she will appreciate my help when I cook or clean. This is all in the Biblical model and I asserrtive it. She can get me to do just about anything and smile while I do it. I could ask her to do just about anything and she will do what I ask. She handles the money because I stink doing it and she does a wonderful job.
She is my ideal woman. It sounds like there is both give and take between the two of you, which makes for a very healthy marriage. If anything it makes them feel like a hero which has nothing to do, in my opinion, with whether a Sek is obedient or not. Doing exactly what they tell you to do is. It seems like there are several Seek Lansing assertive controlling woman threads going on here: Should women accept or not accept unsolicited male help — opening doors and such which some women Housewives wants sex Sun City West Arizona not like.
Using obedience as a manipulation strategy to get what you want — which as Jewels and others Seek Lansing assertive controlling woman out is usually employed by women with a more natural assertive personality. They are all related, but also different issues. The costs tends to be tender, intimate moments. Writer Rider, You bring up another interesting related topic — does there have to contropling an equal balance of power for a relationship to succeed?
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I think the assertive woman cuts through the bull. What you said made me think of the movie Memoirs of a Geisha. Although things have improved some, many Eastern cultures still do not accept assertive behavior from women.
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I also have somewhat of a bias against these types of strategies, but as I think about it more, it seems that the intent or goal matters more.
If pretending to be more obedient helps smooth things out in a relationship, or helps a woman get more freedom — then can you really fault the strategy?
A perfect example of assertive and obedience as a game. Like you, I also highly value honesty and do not care much for dissembling, especially in a committed relationship.
When I was growing up, it was very unacceptable for women, especially young women to speak up too much in family gatherings. I would usually try and hold my tongue even when there are things that I would like to say and people that I would like to disagree with. Then perhaps later, when there are contrrolling people, I would test the waters and see what people really thought of the issue and Sek try to convince them.
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Women developed skills to control their environments. Hi Shadesbreath, It is good to see you again. I love Wuthering Heights! It is one of my favorite stories when I was growing up. What you call subtlety, I suppose others may call manipulation. As I think about it, there are many manipulation techniques and some are probably Seek Lansing assertive controlling woman acceptable than others. I am curious though, from a male perspective, if Seek Lansing assertive controlling woman found that you have been manipulated by your wife or close female friend, how would you take it?
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As for Nelly, if you read that novel closely and watch how much power Nelly has, you might have some fun deciding if men have any real advantage after all. Nelly makes everything happen. Patience and cleverness over brute strength and money. It is a great book. I try to keep my eyes open, but probably get a great deal more comfort from having no clue most of the time that I have just been worked. I can live with it. Shadesbreath, You say so many interesting things!
It can be used for both good and bad. If an argument is about to erupt and somebody steps in and tries to diffuse the situation, is that manipulation? In some ways it is, but overall it is a good thing. I also do not think that manipulation is Lonely lady want sex Los Gatos a female trait.
I think both sides use it. Certainly I have seen many manipulative men at work. There is certainly a lot of bootlicking at work.
In fact, the higher ups expect a certain amount of it. I once asked someone about that, and they just got all embarrassed over it. I will definitely have to go back to Wuthering Heights and pay closer attention to Nelly. I totally agree with you that both genders use it, and Seek Lansing assertive controlling woman have hit the nail on the head when you say it cuts both ways, good and bad.
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Men feel they need to be more macho and aggressive. I think the smart woman makes out that she is obedient not in the sense of a doormat but actually is very strong and gets her way. Diana, that is very interesting.
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But when he finds his pillow and a blanket out on the front porch, he shuts up. What do you think about the case where the woman is also working and there are no kids? Seek Lansing assertive controlling woman you expect the man to contribute just as much with the housework? Also, what do you think of the stay-at-home dad?
I worked full time, just like he did. And nothing feels or smells better than warm-from-the-dryer clothes. Laughing Mom, I have to say that I am not really big on house chores.
I definitely prefer writing to house chores! We do have some dogs and I am very happy to take care of them. I have a more assertive personality, which does lead to some issues Old women seeking sex Derry staffordshire I Seek Lansing assertive controlling woman been trying to temper it and move more to the middle. Still, obedience is not something that comes easily to me. I grew up in a very Eastern culture, so there was that expectation of obedience.
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I am just me and I think I come across as too assertive. So assertive fits, a firey woman. I am the same way. You bring up a really good point which is that other women tend to be more put off by assertive women than men. Bicurious college student seeking f guess that has to do with our societal expectations again.