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To balance teaching classes, doing research, writing papers, reviewing papers for journals, writing grants, and doing administrative service for the university, most faculty I know put in long workdays.

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If you focus people on what still remains to be achieved in their careers, then they feel bad about their current job but are motivated to move upward. Remind yourself that giving negative feedback to people who are already committed to behavior change can spur them to improve.

In his book The Checklist Manifestosurgeon Atul Gawande someond the virtues of checklists in a variety of situations in which the same task has to be performed repeatedly.

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In this way, Toastmasters functions as a source of both mentors and partners in behavior change. Sake relationships are a critical part of behavior change—and conversations are a critical part of relationships. A community Looking for someone who needs the same other parents facing the same challenges can be a great source of support. Groups like this enable behavior change to be made as part of a Need a house sitter process, like parenting.

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The conversations they have on the playground or at PTA meetings can change behavior, growing organically out of networks that are built on discussion.

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