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In short, thank you! Last spring, I met a girl who has changed my life.

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Especially the part about humility. Datin wait, I did. Why does all of this sound familiar to me? Because I was Kevin not too long ago, all through college and medical school.

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Tomfoolery aside — aww man. Could I write a book on this one. You must get out of the scarcity mentality This is the big no-no when it comes to college romance.