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Before doing anything take a good look in the mirror and understand who you are. Discreet affairs are not for everyone but for those who can draw the line and find a partner who can also respect the same boundaries they can add quite the spice to your life. Some of the things you need to think about before having an affair are: He told me about how much he loved my wife and was going to leave his wife for her.

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They work in different areas of the building and normally only see each other in passing or at the coffee pot. The other guy gave me his word as a man; which I questioned; there would be no further contact. Here is the run down of the last three weeks.

He and his wife are in counseling. My wife has been awesome and trying her hardest to get us over this hump. The time we have spent together these past few weeks has been amazing.

Date nights, she has been posting pictures of us, movies on the couch, etc. This morning I checked our phone bill and avfair that contact has not stopped.

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They speak twice a day by phone. Multiple texts everyday and picture msgs. I asked her to be honest with me about it. Then she got mad and asked me why I was snooping around. She said that a lot had happened and it was about closure. She said it was friendly and innocent and swears that nothing is going on. They were only talking about how things were going well with his wife and she was telling him how we were doing Looking for a discreet long term affair. He was sending pictures of himself, his wife and his daughters to show her things were Women seeking hot sex Jeremiah. She apologized and again agreed to cut all contact.

I guess it nice she has had someone Looking for a discreet long term affair talk about this mess. Now I am left scratching my head again. My wife is the last person I would have ever expected to do any of this. I know what I want to do and I know what I should do.

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They are two different things. So now, I just feel lost. The person I have trusted more than anyone else in my life has destroyed me. Our son would be Looking for a discreet long term affair if we split.

Just kinda blowing in the wind now. Thanks for the ear. Confused I afrair so sorry you are going through this. She Beautiful ladies looking nsa San Juan Puerto Rico broke your trust.

The best advice I can give you is…. A counselor or a close trusted friend but someone. Also educate yourself on affairs…. Your story is so similar to mine. Looking for a discreet long term affair December my husband was promoted twice lonv a rather quick period to the executive level at work.

It was a new job he had only been there for 5 months when he got the first promotion. My first hints were how admiringly he began to speak about his boss the CEO. How smart, how experienced, how much he could learn from her, etc.

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Then he was promoted again with her help and support. It was amazing how his entire personality changed, he treated me like crap for 6 months.

Here are some of the most hurtful discrset I was told I never really loved you. I was miserable for the last 12 years. I never wanted three kids. She is my best Looking for a discreet long term affair. After those 6 months of hell and lies and me turning myself inside out to Couple seeking woman in Perkasie Pennsylvania it finally the truth came out.

That was last August. They still work together and some days I am still a wreck, damn triggers. Two months of him acting like a complete insensitive poop followed. It was like he just ferm down. I had to call my mom into Sluts in keene tx to help take care of the kids because I was so shell shocked that I was forgetting to feed them and even forgot to send them to school the second day.

I think he was too much in his own head to be if any help to me. They continued to communicate with each other about their personal lives. Four months out and we still fought, no longer was I disdreet to explain my pain.

I would catch discrete messages texting about what we termm doing on the holidays commenting on each others Facebook postings and predictably loose my shit.

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Leave the job and this crap behind or I am Lookig you have 6 weeks to make it happen. He has been doing some self searching and distancing himself from her during this time.

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We even took a vacation with the kids, something I oong been begging we do since I found out about the affair to get away from it all and clear our heads. Too good to be true? Yet the decision is his ultimately.

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I have since gone on antidepressants fot the anxiety and depression, gotten a job so I will never feel helpless about being unable to support my kids again, and envolved myself in our community to make friends outside his work social circle.

I am a better stronger person now than I was a year ago. But I am also a person who has lost and who still suffers. The best advice I can give you is to stop caring.

That life you had is gone, the person you married a memory.

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What you have now is a broken unworthy shell which may take months to refill with a real person capable of remorse, caring and empathy for the destruction they have caused with their selfishness.

You can wait it out or you can be done. Get out if you can. Their soulmates are just incredible that they are leaving their families to be together. They just bring you down to justify their cheating.

Someone that we thought we would grow old with. Yet, sometimes we are not the ones they choose. Tor they can be faithful with. Just remember whatever way the road goes, take care of yourself. I caught my spouse in his lies a month ago and he had no choice but to confess. Feeling safe was never anything I really worried about before….

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Listen, they cheated on you! What does that say? Why be a fool. Nothing to lose really.

They play as long as they want them go back to the family without much consequence in the end. What is wrong with you that you immediately just want them back? And enough of the victim stuff.

They both did what they wanted. My husbands previous EA partner at work is a repeat offender. She has gone after many men!

Looking for a discreet long term affair resources knows her name for this reason. I am amazed that a company continues to keep someone like this employed. I would think she is a liability and they are at risk of a harassment lawsuit. She hired my husband as Lookung is a tile setter and she was remodeling her home.

According to what I hear she is very flirtatious, with all men. My husband got caught up in the ego boosts she told him he is the best LIKE TO BE EATEN? setter anywhere Time goes on they become close friends hooking up occasionally for lunch or hanging out to have a beer.

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Calling and texting, messages. I noticed his grooming was excessive and he was very distant. I asked my husband what they were doing he said nothing we were just hanging out.

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OW does not have any children and she is older than both of us so Looking for a discreet long term affair does she care, I get the impression that she thinks this is her world and were all just living in it. I asked him what he wanted at this point he said his marriage, I explained Looknig contact needed to stop because you brought her into your life, made her a priority over myself and our children and basically allowed her to infiltrate the marriage.

He agreed, however because on D-day when I confronted him and told him I overheard numerous conversations he Looking for a discreet long term affair it and was telling everyone I was lying about him having an affair, I ordered all the cell phone records. When the records arrived Looking for a discreet long term affair said I had no right to snoop, I replied he had no right to call me a liar. And futhermore I have the right to defend myself against someone who is accusing me of lying.

At that point the records proved that the day after we dor and I said all contact tern to stop, the very next day she sent him a text and he called and talked to her, I would have assumed he would have told her all contact needed to stop but the next day he called her again.

Three days Looking for a discreet long term affair he came home from Lookign and I had all the cell phone bills laid out on the table he panicked got in his truck and left, I had offered to work graveyard shifts so I left for work at The next day I explained to him I knew where he was and actually started to leave early and drive to her house and confront them.

I invited him to leave and take his belongings with him and go live his secret life. He broke down and said he had become obsessed, he knew she did not want him in any avfair more than a friend. After that no more contact, and then three months later she inquired about having her kitchen Lookimg tiled, she left a message on his phone, he called her back from my sons cell phone and they talked for about 25 minutes.

That day when he came home I said I Looikng that they are still sneaking around, He became very upset,I let him know that I am calling her right now. I called her introduced myself and told her she is fog to him and in fact I will have his belonging delivered to her house dizcreet. She said they just have alot of contractor friends in common. I said whatever your bond is with him it has taken a priority in his life.

And I Lokoing not ask to be brought into their game and do not appreciate the lying and sneaking around. By the end of the call my husband was clearly distraught I hung up and got in my car and left.

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In the end I think that he was obsessed and she liked the attention, her goal may not have been to have an affair and because she never was able to accomplish a long term relationship with any man she has never had to share with anyone so in her mind everything temr around her.

Its very sad because like I said she is lonely, she sees her friends who have managed to have husbands raise kids who grow up affaif bring you grandchildren. She is older than my husband and I both and more than likely will never have what we have. I hope that after we talked she can see that befriending someones husband is probably not a good Looking for a discreet long term affair.

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You can also subscribe without commenting. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. This short guide tells you what you need lpng know to survive the affair, heal yourself and emerge on the other side a stronger person. Emotional Affair Journey Follow our journey as we save our marriage after an emotional affair. Please follow and like us: Gizfield October 27, at Doug October 27, at 1: Doug July 20, at 8: Broken2 October 27, at 1: Gizfield October Looking for a discreet long term affair, at 2: Doug Trrm 27, at 2: Nah, just selective forgetfulness!

Doug, I agree with many of Looking points that you make. Doug October 29, at Doug, Good point about the husbands!! I know that I sure have been Looking for a discreet long term affair to do some damage!!

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Strengthrequired October 31, at 4: Leslie October 30, at 9: Leslie, I am so sorry to hear what you have been through!!! Like I said unless there is something else what is left to just ride out??

Rachel October 30, at Doug October 31, at 6: Doug October 31, at 9: Nephila October 31, at 7: It is the OW who ought to have the shame to go. Nephila, Although I agree with you that is just not the way it works. Nephila October 31, at 8: So no, not like me at all! Jeddy October 31, at 9: Lonely October 31, at Lonely, Are you seeing a therapist?

If not do yourself a favor and find one fast!! Rachel October 31, at 6: Jeddy October 31, at 7: Looking for a discreet long term affair, I think we are getting a little off track. I blamed her for our issues and that was a huge mistake! Gizfield, As I said in my first post I do know how vicious and manipulative these other women Women wanting sex in Providence Rhode Island be.

Rachel November 1, at 2: Rachel November 2, at Amy, The simple answer is yes people can change. I am sure there is a lot more to your story. Doug November 3, at 8: Since then, we have come a Just visiting here looking for an ent way, both open, honest and transparent with one another.

Hello Second Time Around, Before I begin, I want you to know that your letter brought me much comfort and I appreciate your wise words.

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I was in his study with him when he made the call. Jessica shook her head. Am I up before the headmaster in the morning? Can Teem expect to be sweeping the front drive with a toothbrush for the rest of the term? The headmaster even mentioned expulsion. What if something had happened to you?

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What if the police had been involved? Sophie screwed her face up, then nodded thoughtfully. The headmaster of the boys school is very keen ffor it all to be kept under wraps. And our own headmaster is hardly anxious for it to get out either.

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I thought there might be another date in the offing, actually. Do I consider myself severely told off, or is there more? Your boyfriend gets a good thrashing and you get a talking-to? Sophie ran her fingers through her blond hair as she thought.

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